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watch We sat in pairs, with eyes shut and we took it in turns to be each other’s death. ‘Hello Ruth, I am your death, I have know you all your life and now it is time for you to know me, do not be scared, I am nothing to fear’. It required great imagination for the speaker to feel what death might say if it could speak. After 10 minutes it was my turn to have my death speak; it was uncanny and this effect is heightened when you realise of course that not only do you hear your own death talking to you, but in the silences you hear all the other deaths in the room quietly talking to their partners. I was amazed at how the universality of death drew us closer as a group; we listened, and supported each other.
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making a dating website We had the opportunity to write our own obituary and were given the freedom to fantasise about the life we would like to be remembered for. Having written this we passed it to the person on our right who then read it to the whole group. Once again the differences in people’s aspiration, both in detail and scale was quite lovely: from one person who had built his own chicken shed to another whose assassination at a political rally precipitated world revolution (her funeral was attended by her 15 children and their 7 fathers). This session, although a lot of fun, in reality was an exercise to look at (yes it’s the BIG one) what we want to do with our lives. This question was further explored by an exercise on: ‘what would you do if you had only six months to live?’ Try it sometime, take it seriously and you may be surprised at what you reveal to yourself.
http://bestone.com.au/?m=201307 We also talked about religious beliefs and the ‘teachings’ we had received in childhood, we planned our funeral, we share near death experiences and our own feelings of bereavement. Perhaps ‘Exploring Our Own Life’ would be a more accurate title as during this weekend we certainly spent more time talking about life than about death. After all, how else could it be? At the end one person said: “I’ve never laughed so much in a weekend…”